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For Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, Transgender, Questioning Folks:
First off,
let me tell you that I have spent all of my career working with the gay, lesbian,
bisexual and transgender community. My specialty throughout my entire career
has been to help gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgendered, HIV impacted and questioning
youth and young adults. I have worked with primarily with youth and young adults
who have had many difficult emotional, psychological and mental health problems,
many of which you could never believe. I've seen it all! Well, okay, not everything,
but down right close to it! I am passionate about working with the GLBT community
and have a lot of knowledge and resources at my disposal. By the way, for queer,
transgendered, or questioning adults, I do work with adults too. I am able to
help with transitioning processes and all issues relevant to the GLBT community.
Because of my extensive background in this area, I am used as a resource in
teaching many of my colleagues how to work more effectively with sexual/gender minority
communities. I have trained police officers, probation officers, social workers,
students, hospital workers, shelter and group home staff, parents, etc. about the community as a whole and the
specific needs of each subgroup. By the way, for those transgendered folks
reading this, yes I do specialize
in working with transgendered and intersexed people. I don't just throw in the
"T". I have served on the Los Angeles County Transgender Task
Force as the director of the Youth Subcommittee, produced outreach materials for
Transgendered Youth who are high risk or living on the streets. I have done a lot of
work with transgendered youth and adults and have helped many folks through
various stages of their transitioning process. This is an area that I have a lot of
experience with. I have helped hundreds of folks explore their gender identity,
sexuality, and related concerns, and
have access to many resources in this area.
Because there are so many areas that impact the gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender community, it is difficult to talk about everything on a webpage. What I want my all of my "queer" clients to know is that in coming to see me, they are coming to a safe space where they will be understood and working with someone who "gets it."
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For parents of children who are gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender or questioning - or if you are questioning, I have worked with families around sexual and gender identity issues for years. I can help! Be aware right up front, I won't attempt to change your child's sexual or gender identity. Your kid isn't sick, you are not bad parents, it isn't your fault, and no one is crazy for being a member of a sexual minority. I can help deal with crises related to a youth's sexual and/or gender exploration/identity, but I will NOT try to make them into someone else. I have a lot of families who have struggled with issues concerning spirituality, a child's identity, coping with an HIV infected child, educating youth about HIV prevention, abuse and sexual or gender identity, hate crimes and issues concerning runaway or throwaway youth. Contact me - I CAN HELP! I will provide your family with a supportive environment to explore the impact of a child's sexuality or gender identity upon the family, friends, school, the future, etc. etc. etc. I know that there are many things to think about when you discover your child's sexuality or gender preference. Let me help you through the process to make things easier! Please keep reading.
My goal in working with families is to keep families together. There is nothing
more important than keeping a family strong and together, and there is nothing
sadder than a family who throws out their gay child. It is always an honor
when a family comes to work
with issues around the sexuality and gender of their
child. I have a ton to offer you! Even if the sexuality or gender identity of
your child isn't the main issue you would
like to come to therapy for, because I have extensive experience in this area, I
can offer a supportive environment where your concerns are understood and
respected. I won't over-focus or under-focus on your child's identity. A gay
child is a whole person, not just a gay person.
Without a good family system, gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgendered youth's lives can be terribly impacted. GLBT youth can be targets of hate crimes, discrimination, social isolation, fear, religious persecution, political agendas, harassment at school, on the job, etc. Many GLBT youth have problems with drugs, alcohol, premature introduction to sexuality, don't learn to build healthy relationships, may attempt suicide or get involved in survival sex if they don't have a supportive family. In addition, GLBT youth are at high risk of being sexually exploited by older adults or engage in violent relationships with peers. Predators sense gay children's vulnerability and exploit this. A supportive family can help a GLBT teen to navigate their identity in a positive way, so that they will grow up leading a normal, healthy, and productive adult lives.
It is illegal for all schools in California to discriminate against a child for their sexual identity or gender identity. Schools are required to protect sexual minority children.
Transgendered youth are allowed to cross-dress at school legally and cannot be told to change their appearance solely because the school doesn't want the child to cross-dress. It is also illegal for teachers and other school personnel to refer to a transgendered child by their birth sex and name if a child lives as the opposite gender. It causes a significant safety issue for transgendered children and promotes harassment.
Gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgendered teens are 3x more likely to attempt suicide than other teens.
30% of all completed teen suicides are committed by gay youth.
Transgendered teens are 3x more likely to attempt suicide than gay youth!
More than 50% of all transgendered teens have attempted suicide.
The largest population of homeless youth, 42%, are gay, lesbian, bisexual or transgendered.
Sexual minority youth experience constant harassment at school, and teachers fail to respond 97% of the time.
97% of all public high school students hear homophobic comments from their peers regularly, 53% report that they hear homophobic comments from their school staff.
80% of all sexual minority youth report that they experience severe isolation from peers.
22% have reported that they have cut classes and skipped school because they felt unsafe and threatened by peers at school.
Less than 20% of all school guidance counselors have received any training on serving sexual minority youth. Two thirds of them harbor negative feelings towards sexual minority youth.
25% of all gay and lesbian adults have reported experiencing family violence as a result of their sexual orientation.
Sexual minority youth are more likely to drop out of high school than any other youth group.
Homosexuals and women are the most frequent victims of hate crimes in the US. Many people do not consider violence against women hate crimes, despite that a huge number of crimes against women are directly related to their gender.
19% of gay/lesbian youth reported suffering physical attacks because of their sexual orientation.
1 in 5 men were infected with HIV during their adolescence.
70-85% of all gay/lesbian youth use alcohol, 44-56% use other drugs. Many reported being weekly users.
Approximately 3% of the general population has significant feelings of discomfort about their gender, cross-dress, or are transsexuals. This means that 3 out of every 100 youth experience conflicts about their gender.
Gender-questioning youth are at a higher risk for unsafe sex and exposure to sexually transmitted diseases.